Wednesday 14 December 2011

In search of a Russian Oligarch.....?



I guess one of the advantages of not being married nor having had children is that rather selfishly I really only have myself to think about. My life decisions affect just little ole me which gives me the freedom to make radical changes. So 6 months ago I decided to change my life. I handed in my notice from my office job, gave up my apartment and moved back home and embarked on a quest to find out what it is I wanted to do for the rest of my years on this planet. When I announced this news to friends and family the consensus was that I was very brave but I didn't see it like that at all. There is nothing brave about gambling when you have nothing to lose. A little scared and anxious from time to time? Well yes as I spent many a sleepless night wondering what would become of me but stubbornly I kept a positive mind and believed all would turn out well in the end. I was in a position where I could pretty much go anywhere and do anything. I had no ties, very few financial commitments and some savings which bought me the most valuable of commodities.....time.

Ironically when you have numerous choices available to you, making a decision is nigh on impossible. The world is not only your oyster, it is a fairground of whirling merry go rounds and speedy rollercoasters. Knowing which ride to jump on and get the most enjoyment out of without too many stomach churning moments is akin to choosing lottery numbers that if you pick incorrectly you miss the jackpot!

For the first few months I concentrated on writing. Without the pressures of a stressful job to occupy the space in my head, my mind was free to wander and tap into an imagination that once unleashed threw out idea after idea to the point that I was writing three books at once! The writing continues today but I have sensibly chosen just one book to finish and to date I am a fifth of the way through. However, there is no guarantee that I will be published and as the months roll on and my savings dwindle I had to look for another fairground ride to jump on.

Some years ago I qualifed to teach English as a foriegn language but personal circumstances at the time prevented me from embarking on a teaching career.  The idea had crept into the back of my mind again about a year or so ago but I had ignored it's niggling presence, my own fears at the time refused it to be anything but a pipe dream. Now with the changes that I had made I decided to look in to this again. I tested the waters and volunteered to participate in two English Immersion Programmes in Spain and Poland. Whilst this was not strictly teaching in a classroom setting it did involve certain elements which required patience, understanding, quick thinking and enthusiasm. Most importantly it re-ignited my passion to teach.  I had hit the jackpot and spent the following weeks applying for numerous teaching jobs across the globe. My lack of experience went against me and I heard nothing from most of my applications. Thankfully after a few refusals and frustrating periods of radio silence my perserverance and positive thinking paid of.

On Sunday 18th December, 6 months after I quit my job and 10 years after I returned to the UK, I am boarding a plane to Moscow where I will work, teaching English to Russian folk before being shipped out to Siberia to continue to teach in a new school. The only Russian word I know is Vodka....but hey I always like making things difficult for myself and I'm sure it won't be long before I've learnt the words for "it's f***ing freezing here"!

I've always wanted to visit this once Imperial Land. It's unobtainable, out of reach existance gave it a mystical quality that has always fascinated me.  My life long ambition is to travel on the Trans-Siberian Express but I never in a million years thought I would work in the country responsible for its creation.

Where this fairground ride is taking me, I've no idea. How fast it will go and the thrills and spills it will bring along its way remain to be seen. One way to find out is to follow my new blog which will chart my life in Russia. I hope to bring to you a little piece of Russian culture, food, travel and people as you join me in my journey of discovery over at In search of a Russian Oligarch

The Modern Day Spinster will be taking a back seat for now and who knows should I find my Russian oligarch or even Russian prince (aim high) then our beloved Spinster can climb off her soap box and hide herself away. I want to thank all those who have taken the time to read my posts on here and especially those who took the time to leave encouraging positive comments. I hope to see you over at my new blog very soon.

Take Care

GEM

xx

10 comments:

  1. That is amazing! What an adventure.

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  2. Wow, I love the way you express yourself, you can tell that you are very intelligent. Enjoy your next adventure and I hope I enjoy mine. xx

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  3. Hey GEM,
    Wow, this is awesome. And well done for you pursuing your dreams. I'm very impressed and happy for you. May your future be most positive, inspirational and uplifting.
    I look forward to your new blog and I greatly appreciate the positive interaction we have shared.
    Oh, if you see Roman Abramovich, would you please tell him I'm still waiting for him to return the money I lent him :)
    All the very best to you, my friend.
    In kindness and respect, Gary xx

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  4. Hi Annabelle

    Thanks for following my new blog...I shall keep you up to date with my adventure.

    Take Care

    GEM
    xx

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  5. Hey Jonathan

    Thanks so much for your lovely comments. I wish you well for your own new adventure in Spain. Keep in touch!

    xx

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  6. Dear Gary

    Ah so you're responsible for Chelsea's recent success!! I hope he pays you back tenfold.

    Thank you so much for always interacting with my blog and for your generous comments. This is not the end but a new beginning, one I hope you will continue to follow at my new blog.

    I hope life is treating you better and positiveness is abundant for you and your son in 2012....and Penny of course!!

    Take Care friend

    GEM
    xx

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  7. That is brilliant news!! Bom viagem from over here in Portugal!!

    Just do NOT think of becoming a spinster with a russian orphan!!!! A friend of mine did and nightmare does not begin to describe the dysfunction!

    And its Wodka :))

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  8. Wow. And I mean that, sincerely. Even though you don't think you've been courageous, I sure as hell think of you that way. You have had a fascinating life, GEM. I had no idea. I think you've told more about yourself in this post than in any other since I began reading your blog awhile back.

    So you're going to Russia to teach English? Again... Wow. I bet my bottom dollar that you will know the Russian words for "it's f***ing freezing here"! But I'm sure the experiences you will likely have, like riding the Trans-Siberian Express and learning amazing things about their culture will be something you won't trade for all the money in the world. I wish you luck, GEM and now I'm off to check out your latest blog.

    Take care and Happy Holidays to ya!

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  9. Hi Possum

    Well i made it and have spent my first day in Moscow and will start teaching tomorrow. As I am teaching young children I doubt I will want to adopt one too!lol. Wodka eh?....so you speak Russian?? ;)

    Take Care

    GEM

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  10. Hi Kelly

    Thanks for the praise and yes maybe I'm being a little bit courageous as getting through Moscow airport past all the guards was a little daunting to say the least. But I made it and am now happily ensconced in my apartment and will start teaching tomorrow. I won't go into anymore details yet. I will save it for my Russian blog.

    BTW...it's not f***ing freezing yet...just freezing :)

    Take Care

    GEM

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